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Practical support for the weeks when cutting back feels manageable, and the ones when it doesn't

What Is Zebra Striping? How Alternating Drinks Can Help You Drink Less grey area drinking mindful drinking moderation tools Jul 06, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

If you've heard people talk about “zebra striping” and found yourself quietly interested, you're probably

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Drinking Less at Christmas: How to Actually Enjoy It grey area drinking mindful drinking mindset self-care & wellbeing Jun 02, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

Some time in late November, the December calendar fills up. The work Christmas party. Christmas Eve. Christ

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Sober October: Rules, Tips and How to Make It Last dry january dryish january grey area drinking mindful drinking mindset moderation tools self-care & wellbeing Jun 02, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You have probably been here before. September is winding down, Sober October comes up on your social feed o

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Hypnotherapy for Drinking Less: What Actually Happens in a Session mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 21, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You've probably tried the obvious things. The Monday rules. The smaller glass. The 'just two tonight.' An

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Binge Drinking Every Weekend: Why It Happens and How to Stop mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 21, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

Monday to Thursday, everything holds together. The gym gets done, the meals are reasonable, the early night

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Social Drinking: Why You Drink More Than You Mean To grey area drinking mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 20, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

The plan was two drinks. That is always where it starts. Two drinks, maybe three, and home at a sensible ti

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Drinking Alone: When It's Fine, When to Pay Attention mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 20, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

The door closes. The coat comes off. Somewhere between the bag dropping and sitting down, the glass appea

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Alcohol and Stress: Why It Feels Like It Helps (And What Works) mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 20, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

The door closes. The bag drops. Something in the body exhales even before the glass is poured.

For a lot of

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What Does Sober Curious Mean? And Do You Have to Give Up Alcohol? grey area drinking mindful drinking moderation tools understanding alcohol May 18, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist

You heard it somewhere. A podcast, maybe, or a passing comment at dinner. Sober curious. And something in it landed, in the quiet way that a phrase can find

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Dry January (or Dryish January): The Version That Actually Sticks dry january dryish january grey area drinking hypnotherapy mindful drinking mindset moderation tools May 17, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

January has a way of making things clearer.

Not always in a dramatic way. More often it is a quieter feelin

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Taking a Break from Alcohol: A Practical Guide mindful drinking moderation tools self-care & wellbeing May 15, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

The decision often doesn't arrive dramatically. It's more of a quiet settling, a moment when you realise you...

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Hangxiety: Why Your Post-Drinking Anxiety Is More Than a Bad Morning mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 11, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You know the feeling.

The heart beating slightly faster than it should. The flat, grey weight of unease tha

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