The Moderation & 'New You' Blog

Practical support for the weeks when cutting back feels manageable, and the ones when it doesn't

What Is Zebra Striping? How Alternating Drinks Can Help You Drink Less grey area drinking mindful drinking moderation tools Jul 06, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

If you've heard people talk about “zebra striping” and found yourself quietly interested, you're probably

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Best Supplements for Women Over 40: Sleep, Energy & Support When Drinking Less Jul 02, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You've noticed it in small ways. The wine that used to switch your brain off at 7pm isn't there anymore,

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Why Alcohol Affects Women Differently Than Men grey area drinking hormones & health self-care & wellbeing understanding alcohol Jul 01, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You've had a glass and a half of wine. Maybe two. Your partner has had three pints, cracked open a beer for

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Drinking Less at Christmas: How to Actually Enjoy It grey area drinking mindful drinking mindset self-care & wellbeing Jun 02, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

Some time in late November, the December calendar fills up. The work Christmas party. Christmas Eve. Christ

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Sober October: Rules, Tips and How to Make It Last dry january dryish january grey area drinking mindful drinking mindset moderation tools self-care & wellbeing Jun 02, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You have probably been here before. September is winding down, Sober October comes up on your social feed o

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Does Alcohol Age Your Skin? What Changes When You Drink Less May 29, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You probably didn't plan to notice. Maybe it was a bathroom mirror on a Sunday morning, or a photo someone

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Alcohol and Anxiety: Why It Feels Like It Helps, Then Makes Things Harder grey area drinking mental health self-care & wellbeing understanding alcohol May 28, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

It started as a way to slow down. The day had been long, the mind had not stopped, and a glass of wine in t...

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Will I Lose Weight If I Stop Drinking? What Happens When You Cut Back Too grey area drinking midlife self-care & wellbeing understanding alcohol May 24, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

The question doesn't usually arrive in a dramatic way. It arrives in the quiet moment before opening a seco

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Hypnotherapy for Drinking Less: What Actually Happens in a Session mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 21, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

You've probably tried the obvious things. The Monday rules. The smaller glass. The 'just two tonight.' An

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Binge Drinking Every Weekend: Why It Happens and How to Stop mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 21, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

Monday to Thursday, everything holds together. The gym gets done, the meals are reasonable, the early night

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Social Drinking: Why You Drink More Than You Mean To grey area drinking mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 20, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

The plan was two drinks. That is always where it starts. Two drinks, maybe three, and home at a sensible ti

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Drinking Alone: When It's Fine, When to Pay Attention mental health mindful drinking understanding alcohol May 20, 2026
By Tansy Forrest, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Author of Ten Steps to Drink Less and Live Well

The door closes. The coat comes off. Somewhere between the bag dropping and sitting down, the glass appea

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